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Wingman Rule #1 – If you approach, you pick the girl
Whomever approaches, chooses – the most important rule for how to be a great wingman. If your friend starts talking to a couple of women and you join them, make sure you don’t interfere with the woman he’s interested in.
Using this rule solves the “I saw her first” problem. Instead of arguing about glances and eye contact (and sabotaging both of your chances), you’ll both be encouraged to approach more women. Everyone wins.
Wingman Rule #2 – Your friend is always cool
Women make a lot of judgments about you before you even open your mouth. They look at how you dress, your body language, who you’re out with, and, of course, how you treat other people and how they treat you, and so on.
If you and your friends treat each other with respect, she’ll think you have quality people in your life who respect you, and she’ll be more attracted. But if you blow off or disrespect your friend for some girl you met 10 minutes ago, she’ll be less attracted – because you’ve just told her that you’re desperate, or that you’re a loser who has to hang out with people you don’t even respect.
Wingman Rule #3 – The Golden Rule
No, not “do unto others…” though that could also apply. I’m thinking more along the lines of the Hippocratic Oath: First, do no harm.
One place where guys mess this up is in not doing the math. For example, your friend is talking to three women. Being a good wingman, you act enthused to see him, give him his props, and avoid interfering with the woman he seems most into.
When you see an opportunity, you leave with one of her friends. Great wingman night, right?
Wrong. Before you came along, your friend could have taken “his” girl elsewhere, leaving her two friends to talk to each other. Now he can’t (without leaving her friend alone, which women generally don’t want to do).
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