How to pick up girls in Singapore?
PS: Most of it is what i learn from the book in the game and i just summarize it. I’m not a dating coach or what so ever. just thought of sharing it with my fellow singaporean men.
With that getting clear let get back on the topick of picking up girls in Singapore!
The first step to that is to open!
What is opening? Essentially, it’s the first 3-90 seconds of an interaction with a woman, whereby you begin a conversation. With opening, there is good news and bad news. The bad news is that opening can be very scary. Men are biologically predisposed to be incredibly nervous when starting a conversation with a woman that we don’t know. There are good evolutionary-biological reasons for this (in prehistoric times, approaching an unknown woman without permission or an introduction could lead to violent retaliation from her extended family), but that’s probably not a lot of comfort. So, that nervous feeling you get and the little voices that pop into your head looking for excuses NOT to talk to that beautiful woman are
Some more bad news. We not only need to open, suppressing our built-in emotions, but we need to open well. Opening poorly can doom the rest of your interaction with a woman, and any other women who see it, making everything else you do a waste of time.
What’s the good news? With practice, it’s fairly easy. After learning from Love Systems, anyone should be opening successfully 99 times out of 100. Most experienced guys don’t even need to think about opening anymore.
The following tips will help get you started:
1.Have a canned opener ready – This is NOT a night at the improv. Going “situational” (e.g., “it sure is crowded here” or “that’s a nice purse”) will rarely work. For example: Hey excuse me i know this is really werid but i just got to come over and say you look cute in that dress of yours.
2.3-2-1-GO! – When you see a girl you like: GO! Open her group immediately. Failure to do this will “stale you out.” Women like confidence. They don’t like to be stalked. They like spontaneity. Wandering around circling her, looking at her, trying to figure out what to do next will turn her off and creep her out. Get into the habit of seeing a group of people, and GOING IN. You’ve already got your opener ready, right?
3.Approach at an angle – Do not walk straight up to the group. Approach at an angle, tilt your head over your shoulders, and say your piece. Done correctly (and you almost need to see it to do it properly), you raise your value significantly by demonstrating that you do not need their attention or approval.
4.Smile on the approach – Don’t grin like a moron through the entire interaction, but smile as you walk to the set, and in the first few seconds of the opener. Smile with your eyes, not just your mouth. It may sound silly, but smiles can (and should) be practiced in front of a mirror.
5.Be loud enough – Everyone in the group should hear your opener. Your opener should be loud enough that it cuts across whatever conversations they are already having. Don’t shout, but make it socially awkward for them not to pay attention to your opener. Practice opening – loudly – from your chest, not your throat. If you put your hand on your chest, you should be able to talk in two ways: one in which you can feel the vibrations on your hand, and one where you can’t. Train yourself to speak in the way where you can feel the vibrations.
6.Don’t lean in – This is connected to being loud enough. You should project your voice enough that they can hear you from a normal standing position (or leaning slightly back).
7.Engage the group – Do NOT go into a group and talk to the woman you want to meet (the target). Engage the whole group. Pay LESS attention to the woman you are interested in.
8.Playfully tease the target – Teasing is a major tool for triggering attraction. The hotter the girl, the quicker you have to tease. It demonstrates higher social value, and women are attracted to men that they perceive as having higher social status than they perceive themselves to have. I’ve seen some of our instructors open with teasing, and many will begin teasing the target within the first 10 seconds of their openers.
9.False time constraint – This is ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY. Somewhere in the first 30 seconds you should drop in a phrase like “I can only stay a second; I have my friends here.” This will stop the group from feeling uncomfortable (“how long is this guy going to stay here”) while also setting yourself up as a bit of a challenge, since if a woman is interested in you, she knows she’ll have to do some work to keep your attention. Make sure you phrase it in positive terms. For example, consider the difference in what is communicated by “I have to go; my friends are here” compared to “I will only stay a second, then I’ll leave you guys alone.” Do those things, and you should be able to get through opening easily, in almost any social situation.
Another crucial element of opening is ending it. The opener should be something short, to grab the group’s attention, and be emotionally neutral. As soon as you spot an opportunity, you should transition into attraction.
Hopefully this will help you to get started on your journey towards picking up girls in Singapore.
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